Conquering the Great Wall of China

This FR will mainly concentrate on comfort building, with some seduction techniques that relate to conventional LMR.

Me and Jonas have now arrived in Beijing, to visit the Great Wall of China. After a 3 hour tour up in the mountains, we are now standing at a market place waiting for our bus to pick us up. We keep fooling around with some pushy salespeople by video filming their needy behavior, and suddenly, among this big crowd of Chinese people, two blond hot girls appear. Jonas and I don't need to communicate what needs to be done. We get closer to them, and they are checking out some stuff at the market. The hotter one sees me and we get eye contact. She's an 8.5. She keeps her eyes on me and I keep mine on her, this little smile appearing on her face right before she turns away. It's definitely an AI. I get close to some stairs where people can sit down and rest, talking to Jonas. A minute or so later they pass us by and take a seat at the stairs. I tell Jonas we should sit down, and as he takes a seat I walk past them opening with Scandinavian. They are Norwegians. I sit down about 2 meters away from them: a distance where communication is possible but no further interest is signaled. Yes, she gave me an AI, but it's day time now, and I want to play this safely. I'm not going to close her behind the Great Wall anyway.

I keep telling them some interesting or funny things that happened to us during our trip, keeping the conversation at mid energy. Five minutes later Jonas tells me we have to leave for the bus, so I tell them to have a nice trip. As I'm walking away from them I'm starting to realize that I now have the perfect opportunity to go in again. She was interested, as indicated by her AI, and I social proofed myself more than enough through simply approaching and playing it cool. Now that I've ejected, she thinks she's never going to see me again. It's the perfect timing to go back again and time bridge, because there is a universal rule that says girls always want to feel as if they met they're men by coincidence. This is why indirect game (openers, disqualifiers, other routines to convey serendipity) works very well (when done properly). As I get back, they are talking to a sales woman. There's a gap between them and I go in between them, my hands in my back pockets.

Oracle: (Addressing both) Are you finding anything?

My target starts showing me some bags she wants to buy for her sister (if I remember correctly).
We small talk a bit, and they are a bit busy trying to make a bargain, so I pretend to find something that looks interesting a meter away and leave them. As they finish, they tell me we should move away from the sales woman as she is being pushy.

Oracle: (To obstacle) It's Friday, we're going out tonight. Do you guys now any good spots?
Obstacle: No but we're also want to go out tonight.
Oracle: We're going to ask at the reception in our hostel. We can give you a call later. Do you guys have a working phone in China?
HB_sentimental: No but I can give you the number to our hotel reception and you could ask for us there.
Oracle: Do you have email?
HB_sentimental: Yes.

She pulls up a paper and a pen, writes down her email address, and hands it over to me.

Oracle: Alright, I'll send you an email in a couple of hours. Gotta go now. See you guys later.

I leave for the bus, go home and check out some different spots in Beijing. There is a Lake area where there's plenty of bars, it looks like the perfect place to build comfort in a quiet bar. I write her an email suggesting we meet at a bridge in the center of the bar area. Well there she's brought another friend and I have Jonas with me. We say hello without hugging as we've actually only spent 10 minutes or so together. It would be highly uncalibrated to go for physical contact at this stage, that would make her feel uncomfortable. As I've mentioned previously in my FR "Lovers and Providers in India", you shouldn't make any attempts towards kino escalation on your day 2, even if you've already kissed. This is because it makes girls feel uncomfortable when you are eager to escalate. They want to see you're relaxed, so at the very least you will do a baby sitting session (meaning you will simply hold interesting conversation with the girl without trying to escalate). In this case it is not time to baby sit, because I need to build comfort.

We walk around the bar areas adjacent to the lake, looking for good spots. Since I'm the one arranging this meeting (it wouldn't be possible without me or HB_sentimental, but I'm the guy), it makes sense that I should lead the group by going into some bars, checking them out, and finally settling for one that looks good. In all places I enter first, and so the waitresses address me directly. I screen the place, look at the menus, and make the orders. Now is a good time to remember that being alpha is only good when you are a warm alpha. Macho doesn't work to your favor. You need to actually be dominant and positive and the same time. I don't impose my dominance on other people. In fact, there is no dominance directed towards my peer group. There is only the display of alphaness, coming from the fact that I'm choosing places, screening them, and being addressed by the bar staff.

I pick a table with two couches and have a seat near the window. HB_sentimental sits down next to me, Jonas and her friend on the opposite side.

HB_sentimental: You know, I was actually quite afraid coming here. It's very dark in this lake area at night.

Here is a test for you: why do you think she said that? What did she want to convey by saying that? Before you read on, try to figure it out.
Here is the answer: She was conveying that she had put herself in danger to see me. It may be hard for guys to realize, but for two blond girls in a foreign huge city like Beijing, it can be quite scary to walk around in a lake area at night time. She is telling me that she was willing to put herself at risk just to meet me. It's an IOI.

Oracle: I am happy you came here to see me tonight (I shine up in a big smile)
HB_sentimental: I am happy to be here with you.

She really likes me. I had all the attraction I needed before I even approached (physical attraction), it's only a matter of comfort building now. We hold some casual conversation at first, and I realize she's a little shy. With shy girls I usually reflect upon the fact that they are shy. This comes from a frame "I can see you are shy, but that's fine, I don't want you to talk more.", the purpose being to release her insecurities about the social interaction, hence avoiding any potential discomfort she may feel, and at the same time focusing her on building rapport, not just talking a lot. In other words, she doesn't have to talk much, it's only about building rapport together. Quality over quantity of words.


After a while she tells me she comes from a very small village in Norway.
Oracle: That's why you are a little shy. Small town girls always are (smile)
HB_sentimental: Yes, it's true (smiles back)
Oracle: I like it. Since you are shy, we are going to play a game called the question game. Have you heard of it?
HB_sentimental: No, what is it?
Oracle: There are five rules to the game.

I put up my right hand, pointing at each finger as I give her a new rule. My first question is the standard "how many boyfriends have you had?". This game is clearly working, because her first question is not very modest:

HB_sentimental: How many girls have you slept with?

I hate that question. For about a year and a half ago, I was in isolation with a hot Norwegian chick in Brisbane. And as we played that game, she asked me how many girls I've had. I told her the truth, and I could literally see her getting turned off by my unusually high number. Since then I've learnt to lie about this one thing, and fix it later (after sex). The reason is that I can't know whether a girl is as sexually non-judgemental as I am, but I know for sure it won't matter after the sex, because pretty much any sexual history goes as she will backwards rationalize everything to your favor anyway. So I started giving a lower number, and following the suggestion of yusha.p, I also started conveying that I don't actually know the exact number, because I don't count (implying I don't care that much about numbers).

Oracle: How many girls I've slept with...Um... (looking up to the ceiling) To be honest I'm not really sure cause I haven't counted them, but wait a second...somewhere between 24 and 27. Yeah, that's it.
Oracle: My turn. What's the craziest thing you've done?
HB_sentimental: (Thinks for a moment) I don't know!
Oracle: How about non sexual then?
HB_sentimental: Hahaha
Oracle: No wait, that's probably even harder.
HB_sentimental: Hahaha
HB_sentimental: No really, I don't know.
Oracle: Not a problem, your turn then.

I used to throw in the ASD-killer after the question game, but these days I embed it into any relevant question I get (assuming I'm playing this game), and this time is no exception. I also escape the question game by telling a whole story rather than just giving a short answer to every question. And indeed we do leave the question game, ending up simply asking each other lots of personal questions and sharing stories. Her shyness is now compensated for by lack of social fear. We are building comfort.

As we are playing the game, we are leaning towards each other. The attraction is obvious, and the tension is going up. I take her hand so we are now hand holding.

HB_sentimental: It's your turn to ask a question.
Oracle: Yes, it is.

I smile and look her in the eyes. She is looking back; we are staring into each other eyes. Humans only do that in two settings: to intimidate each other when physical conflict is close, or when they have complete trust in each other. You figure out which one this is. I lean in and we start making out. I can hear her friend getting surprised, laughing in delight, and commenting about our kissing to Jonas. But they fade away. My eyes are closed and all of my senses but touch disconnect. We are isolated, kissing.

Time for serendipity conveying. I love this part. The conveyed information is always the same, the wording always different.

Oracle: I've been thinking about how we met at the Great Wall of China. I only had a couple of minutes left til my bus was leaving, and you just happened to be there, at the same place, at the same time as me. What are the odds?
HB_sentimental: I know! It's incredible. And I wasn't really supposed to be there, all my other friends were still up in the mountains, we just decided to come down earlier.
Oracle: Who would have thought, I'm fascinated by it, and happy to have met you.
HB_sentimental: So am I. I have been thinking about you today.

Time for pair bonding.

Oracle: So have I. I was having a chat with friends back home and told them I met you at the wall.
HB_sentimental: (shining up in happiness) Really?
Oracle: They wanted to know more about you, I told them I was going to see you tonight.

She looks incredibly happy. Imagine me throwing in a qualifier like "What are the 3 best things about you?", conveying "why should I choose you, above all else?". It would be a disaster, making her feel insecure and uncomfortable, thus ruining all the comfort building. No, she likes me by default, and all she cares about is that I feel the same way about her. The reasons do not matter at all, serendipity is more than enough, and is usually (and besides, far more powerful than qualifiers). As I've argued before, qualifiers are rarely needed (but yes, they are needed sometimes), the broader category that is always needed is investments: she needs to invest into the interaction, but you're baits do not need to come from a screening or challenging frame. This can be very counterproductive in many contexts.

We keep talking some more but she has to leave quite early because they are going on a trip the next morning. She tells me she wants to see me tomorrow night, and this time alone. I tell her I can meet up with her at her hotel, and she tells me she can throw out her room mate! It certainly sounds like she's planned for us to have sex. We solidify the time bridge: I will come to her hotel tomorrow at a specific time in the evening. Then we leave the club, and I put them both in a taxi to their place.

Next day I get to her hotel in the evening and by coincidence we meet up in the reception. She's in China on a school trip and there's 40+ people waiting for the elevators in the hall way, all looking at me as I approach her. She's clearly been talking about me to all her friends and the rumor has spread. I am the most interesting thing in the hotel right now, and because I'm peacocked and walk up to her with confidence, all her friends are going to tell her how lucky she is when I leave. She already knows that by now, which is the point: I'm social proofing myself by being warm alpha, displaying pair bonding by smiling and holding her hand.

We get up to her room where she has two friends staying, and I talk to them for a bit. Nothing special here, just playing my cards right by being relaxed and confident.

HB_sentimental: Do you wanna go somewhere for a drink?

I have seen this so many times, but I keep forgetting. It's like when you time bridge, and the girl has already strongly implied that she wants to sleep with you on your next meeting. But it doesn't always happen, and in fact, it is so often they bail that it cannot be coincidence. We could simply blame this on ASD, but ASD is only the last part of what really happens. I strongly believe that girls give sexual "promises" to men they like in order to bait men into investing more in them. Then, when it is time to uphold the promise - at the next meeting - they bail, because they feel they need more pair bond. What's so interesting about this is that they do not do this consciously, they actually feel like they want to have sex on the next meeting, but when the next meeting is here in front of them, they're emotions change. They feel they need more pair bonding, and so their behavior changes. If you think about it, it's quite an optimal strategy to use, and I think this is an adaption of the female brain. I am tempted to talk about this in more depth, but I would digress. So what practical use do we have for this knowledge?

By the fact that she has suggested sex but bailed due to lack of pair bonding evidence, you know that pair bonding is the ONLY thing missing in terms of comfort building. She feels safe enough to be alone with you already, and she feels emotionally connected to you. This means you should now focus on showing her more pair bond, because it is the only missing piece of the puzzle.

We the lake area to have a drink in a bar where there is an isolated room with couches. We talk about family. We talk about traveling together and visiting each other back home. She's a very sentimental girl, and she is falling for me. I've seen so many guys who can't handle this situation correctly, because they feel guilty about giving the girl false hopes. But I do neither of these things. I'm telling her I want her to wait until she's back home, and see if she feels the same way about me. After all, we are both traveling and short lived romances are quite common. I'm telling her it's the only way to know for sure. We will see each other if we both want to, because there is nothing else stopping us from doing that. There is no shame in telling truth, and the truth is we cannot know what happens in the future, we can only wait and see. I tell her no matter what happens, I will never forget her. She is different from all girls I've met before, and I am happy faith brought us together at that moment we met at the Great Wall (and some sharp pick up skills, but that part is for later). She is melting.

HB_sentimental: I want to sleep with you in my bed tonight.
Oracle: And I want to sleep in your bed tonight.
HB_sentimental: But my friend is also sleeping in that room. I can't just throw her out. Do you think you can handle that.
Oracle: Oh, most certainly!
HB_sentimental: Hahaha. But really, we can't have sex then. Can you handle that?
Oracle: I'm not sure about that to be honest. Let me think about it.

She is looking at me with suspicious eyes. It's a shit test on pair bonding.

Oracle: Be happy! That's a good thing you know! How would you feel if I had no problems whatsoever sleeping in the same small bed as you without having you? (Note the choice of words: "having you")

She smiles.

Oracle: But I don't need to decide now right? We still got some time.
HB_sentimental: Yes.

Needless to say perhaps, I have already decided to sleep with her. But the more people invest in something, the more they value it.

Oracle: I remember the first time I saw you. I was with Jonas at the wall, and in this huge crowd of Chinese people, you suddenly appeared out of nowhere. At that very moment I knew there was something special about you. (I look into her eyes)
HB_sentimental: Really? I thought we saw each other at the same time, when I was looking at you?
Oracle: No, I went closer because I was drawn to you. Then you saw me, and I knew we were going to meet. When you went to sit down on the stairs with you friend, was that because I was close to them?
HB_sentimental: Yes! I told my friend we should sit down for a while, she said she wasn't tired, but I insisted. (she smiles)

Oracle: So I thought. And here we are now, both living close to each other, yet far away from home.

We kiss.

HB_sentimental: If I hadn't sat down on the stairs, would you still have talked to me?
Oracle: Definitely.
HB_sentimental: Really?
Oracle: But I knew you were going to sit down, that's why I was standing close to the stairs. (I smile again)
HB_sentimental: Haha.

And we kiss again.

Oracle: I will sleep in your bed tonight.
HB_sentimental: So is that OK with you? Can you make it?
Oracle: I'm not sure about that. Are you?
HB_sentimental: No (she smiles)
Oracle: Let's go back to your place.

We grab a taxi back to her hotel. There's some more "I'm not sure I can only sleep with you" between us in the taxi, which is good since I want her to get used to the idea that we might have sex while her friend is sleeping. At the same time, there is a line to draw where it becomes try hard. Calibration to social contexts is key to conveying the things you want to convey, without conveying your underlying intentions in conveying these things. In other words, you need to calibrate what you convey so that you are not being try hard.

Like expected, her friend is already asleep in the room. I'm washing up in the bathroom, taking some extra time is the hope that her friend will wake up and leave the room on her own will. Wishful thinking, but it's worth a shot. Once out of the bathroom she's still there. I take off my clothes, keeping my boxer shorts on, and slip in under the sheets with her. How am I suppose to sleep next to her 8.5 body with size 70C bra when we're spooning each other in bed? I may be able to control most things that happen inside of me, but my sexual drive, I neither want nor can control it. I start kissing her neck and body, touching her arms, back, boobs, and vagina through her panties. I finger her and she grabs my cock, but when I try to take of panties, she wouldn't let me. HB_sentimental has a problem having sex with me while her friend is sleeping in the bed next to us.

Oracle: (whispering) What's the craziest thing you've done?
HB_sentimental: (whispering back) No we can't! She'll wake up.
Oracle: We'll have to be very quiet.
HB_sentimental: No I can't be that quiet.

We keep kissing and touching each other for a while, and suddenly her friend wakes up to check the time on her phone. HB_sentimental is asking her if we're disturbing, and indeed she seems a little pissed off. She tells HB_sentimental - in Norwegian, which I can understand some of - that she can't sleep while we're fooling around, and we have to be quiet. It seems like my only option is to wait until next day.

Oracle: Are you still going to the Summer Palace tomorrow morning?
HB_sentimental: Yes, but you can stay in bed and I'll come back to have lunch with you.
Oracle: Yeah I'll probably still be asleep, so you can join me for some sleep then. Will your room mate also come back with you?
HB_sentimental: No, she's going to the market, I'll come back alone.

We fall asleep.

Next morning she leaves for the Summer Palace, and I fall asleep again. I know she's going to give me resistance if I try to have sex with her as soon as she walks into the room, but I don't want to delay the close any further, as she's leaving in two days. I'll just have to confront her LMR, it shouldn't be a big obstacle now. She will get LMR because girls do that when you try to meet them directly at the seduction location. If they know it beforehand, they usually ask you to meet at another place, because meeting you at the seduction location, where they assume you are going seduce them directly, makes them feel like a slut (triggers ASD). If they don't know it beforehand, as in this case, it may still trigger her pair bonding check.

Ten minutes after I wake up she comes in to the room. I meet her at the door and start kissing her, then I bring her to the bed. We kiss and I start undressing her, but she cuts in, breaking the seduction.

HB_sentimental: Is this only for sex?
Oracle: You know better than that. If it was only for sex, I wouldn't be here. There are easier ways to get sex. I'm here because I want to be with you.

She doesn't resist the escalation anymore. I take off her clothes, she takes off mine, I put on a condom, and...yeah, I fuck her

A Typical First Night Close

After a long day of hunting peacock gear in Hong Kong, me and Nucleus target a popular bar area for westerners. All the places are cock farms with 80-90% guys, so I simply pick the most crowded one: a bar with a big dance floor and around 200 people. I start by getting a red bull, observing the social atmosphere of this new venue. There are around 5 interesting sets, all of whom are dancing. The guys are poorly dressed and have virtually no game. I keep watching a couple of them trying to pick up on the dance floor, and as is usually the case, I see the same mistakes being done: they are too eager and too needy. They are constantly leaning in while talking to the girl. Worse, they are facing the girl while she is facing her friends, even dancing with them, only slightly acknowledging their presence (in what seems to be more about self preservation than friendliness). What these guys have is enough alcohol in their system to lose approach anxiety, at the same time losing whatever calibration they naturally have.

Reactiveness and calibration have an interesting relationship, because as one of them increases, the other one usually decreases. Not to say that this must be the case; of course it isn't so. I am merely making an observation about what commonly happens with guys when they try to pick up: some don't give a fuck and hence become unreactive, but at the same time very uncalibrated, others are careful and hence calibrated but convey lots of reactiveness. It's a rare thing to find guys that are both unreactive and calibrated.

We head for the dance floor to close some sets. Appearance - the art of looking good, not the property of being good looking - is very important because it sets the initial value you'll have before even approaching sets. This is what people refer to as first impression. I'm mainly referring to the passive aspects of looking good: having a good style of clothing, hair style, smelling good, and wearing some interesting peacock gear serving as an approach bait. But this is not all there is to appearance: the energy you (and your group) radiate - which is usually a direct consequence of your internal state - can raise or lower your value, depending on how positive and warm alpha you appear to be. Moreover, social proof through the direct display of female preselection is an extremely effective way of raising initial value.

As soon as I enter the dance floor, I see this Chinese girl standing next to me dancing and looking at me with a smile. We keep eye contact for a couple of seconds. She's a 7.5. Normally guys fuck it up here, because they look away. Unless you turn away because you are in conversation with someone, this is not a very good display of dominance, and hence confidence. If the girl has more balls than you have, then what good are you to her? She isn't looking for a guy whom to take care of and protect. Dominant behavior - not as in restricting other peoples free will, but as an expression of openness, decisiveness, and unreactiveness - conveys leadership, which is one of the fundamental attraction triggers. I raise my lips slightly; just enough to give a subtle IOI without conveying eagerness. Combined with the intensive eye contact, this smile conveys "I like what I see". This must of be followed by a screening frame, i.e. the full expression is "I like what I see, I want to know more about you", not an eager frame "I like what I see, let's hook up!".

HB_china: Hi! (she smiles broadly)
Oracle: Hi, are you Scandinavian?
HB_china: No, I'm Canadian!

The great thing about opening with this one on AIs or as a reply to female opening lines is that it puts doubts about your interest: did you approach or smile at her because you were interested, or was it simply because you thought she was Scandinavian?

She starts asking me where I'm from, at the same time kinoing me. She is very keen. And here lies the mistake most guys do: they would take the opportunity to kino escalate up to kissing immediately. This is usually a bad strategy, because immediately reciprocating interest shows eagerness, and eagerness conveys lack of preselection. If you're taking every chance you get on girls, it means you do not hold any standards, which means you don't have sexual choice, and that inevitably means you're not very attractive to girls. So eagerness is a DLV. Moreover, reciprocating her escalation encourages her to exercise her sexual power over you, which she might gladly do to get validation. This makes it very hard to close her, because if she would give away sex, she would also lose her sexual power, and hence validation. You would then have the challenge of trying to give her more pleasure through lust than what her validation is already giving her. You will have to start chasing, automatically putting yourself at lower value than her.

You could do push and pull to work around this problem, but remember to break off the playful kino teasing at some point and go for the close. What about raising your energy level? Unless you can unabruptly caveman her to sex - which is many times possible - it's harder to close with high energy. This has to do with whatever comfort she needs before having sex with you tonight - sexual comfort. When you are high energy you are clearly not the same person as you are outside of the club - you have taken on a persona suitable for club vibing, and so she knows she is not seeing the real you. Consequently, she is not taking you too seriously. This can give big difficulties build any form of comfort with her, including sexual comfort: the very least you'll need before closing her.

These problems are not realized by most guys because they are validation driven in this game: they care about getting that make out they can brag about to their friends the next day. And ironically, they do this to reinforce a self perception as ladies men, not realizing that kissing a girl but but failing to have sex with her is exactly that: a failure. I am sex driven in this game: the goal is sex, and consequently, the very definition of good things and bad things lies in whether it brings you closer to or further away from sex. Sex is a "close", kissing is not. And I know for a fact that kissing a girl you've just met in a club is a bad thing, especially when she is the one opening you. She will then label you "just fun to hang out with right now in the club". Notice "right now" - it's not even "tonight".

There are two mutually exclusive strategies that will work to your favor: either caveman, or build sexual comfort. Which one you should use depends on what energy the girl is in: you can only lower her energy as much as you have game for; there are definitely situations in which you don't want to try building sexual comfort.

She is already attracted to me, so there isn't much that needs to be done with regards to value raising. She is not extremely high energy, so it's time for sexual comfort in isolation. I reciprocate her kino by brushing lightly enough to make it ambiguous whether I am consciously kinoing or not. To be more precise, the existence of kino reciprocation is quite obvious, but it's purpose is not. She doesn't know whether my light kino brushing is simply a consequence of us standing close to each other on the dance floor, or me signaling interest. However, this is exactly what is needed for her to keep wanting more, and hence investing more, without me signaling eagerness. I stack two more routines to convey personality (mainly through delivery) and open up conversational threads. She jumps into some of them, and we have conversation going. This is good, because I now have her curiosity and it makes sense to move away from the dance floor to have a talk. She is there with a friend who is talking to Nucleus.

Oracle: I am going to show you a Swedish game, it's called the question game.
Oracle (to her friend and Nucleus): I'm going to show your friend something over there, we'll be back in 10.
Obstacle: Okay!

Nucleus keeps gaming her, while I take my target's hand and lead her towards a couple of chairs in the corner. It's almost always a good idea to be holding hands with your target when isolating, bouncing, and extracting. It can indeed become quite awkward to walk next to each other without any locked kino in these situations. When leading in this way, you should grab her hand so that she can't walk in front of you without twisting her arm. There's only two ways of doing this, so you'll figure out which one it is. As we approach the seats, I turn my head back and say "there's 5 rules to the game". We have a seat on bar stools, which enables my favorite position: facing each other, with her knees between mine, and her hands on my knees. This position makes it ridiculously easy for the both of us to kino escalate, all while allowing intimate talking. It's the perfect setup for comfort building.

She is placing her hands on my legs, and I start giving her the rules, once again displaying dominance: when you teach girls things, you are DHVing through delivery.

While playing the game, we start casually asking each other questions and sharing stories. During her answer to one of my early questions, I lean towards her face with my ear, pretending to have difficulties hearing what she's saying, and then start talking at a closer facial distance. Our cheeks are now touching each others, and I turn my head and initiate kissing. This is not seduction kissing but comfort building kissing: this is not the time and place to arouse her but only to make her feel (sexually) comfortable with me.

To keep things short and simple, I'm only going to highlight the most interesting parts of the comfort building here.

HB_china: How many one night stands have you had?

Information that gives away lower bounds regarding how many girls you've slept with is not good when that number is large. Having slept with 30 women is something you can get away with, but it soon becomes a problem as she starts having concerns about just becoming a notch on your belt. So give her a lower number (which you can fix post-sex, simply by telling her the truth about why you lied) for now and convey that numbers don't matter to you: it's the memories and emotions that do.

Oracle: Um...(looking up on the ceiling) To tell you the truth, I don't really count, bu...
HB_china: But I'm sure you could if you wanted to?
Oracle: Perhaps, but I haven't bothered to. Numbers are not interesting, memories are. But somewhere between 10 and 15. Yeah. I love mathematics so let's say 12.5. That makes perfect sense to me.
HB_china: Hahaha

It's perfect to embed the ASD-killer here.

Oracle: When I was 13 I used to have obsessive compulsive disorder. I would wash my hands 20 times a day, shower every morning and every night, and categorize things as either clean or dirty.
HB_china: Oh really!
Oracle: The crazy part is how I got rid of it. I went to boarding school and when I was 15 I met my first girlfriend. I was at a party with friends, and there she was. We kept talking all night and connected really well. So I went back to her apartment that night, and the next morning everything changed. (Note the bait on "boarding school" for further threading/DHVing, and how I keep her curious about whether we had sex or not.)
HB_china: (looking at me very curiously) What happened?
Oracle: I woke up in her bed, and went towards the shower. As I left the bed she woke up too and said "are you going to have a shower now?", because I'd told her everything the night before. I said "yeah, I think I have to" and she replied "no you don't". So I'm standing in the bathroom washing my hands and face (I move my head down and my hands towards my face), and as I look up at the mirror I realize something...(I raise my head towards HB_china and my pull my hands down, then make a short pause)
Oracle: I'm not dirty. I'm not clean (I smile). I've just had sex all night, and (HB_china shines up in surprise) that is neither dirty nor clean. It's natural. So I head back to the bed, and she tells me "did you already have a shower? That was quick." and I said "no, you know what...I don't need to clean myself. I think it's over now. I would rather stay in bed with you like this."
HB_china: Oh my god you got a girlfriend from a one night stand!
Oracle: Yes, that night I lost two things...(pause) My virginity, and my obsessive compulsive disorder.
HB_china: That's amazing!
Oracle: And plus, I got a girlfriend for a year.
HB_china: Wow!

Wow! The main purpose of this story is not to DHV through good delivery - that is of course important, and so you should mimic the events with your body language as much as you can, remembering to keep calibration (for example, you don't bounce or move around much with your body). In particular, when giving dialogues you should mimic the facial expression - and when it's funny, also the tonality and voice - of the impersonated. The main purpose of this story is to prevent seduction related ASD, by conveying that she doesn't not ruin any long term chances with you by having sex early on. Needless to say, this is an important part in first night closing.

Oracle: But I wouldn't call it a one night stand. To me a one night stand is just what it suggests: having sex with someone on the first night, and then not seeing that person again. (To be accurate I should say "and not having sex with that person again", but that is not as good an ASD-killer as the line I used.) But I have had sex with girls on the first night, and they then became my girlfriends. Well that part is obvious by now I think. (I smile) My turn. Um...alright here's a good one, have you ever had a threesome?
HB_china: No.
Oracle: Okay. (Pause) The best thing about that question is that you can't actually ask me it back (teasing smile).
HB_china: (smiling) I know!

We keep playing the game for a while, and her friend comes back with Nucleus. She tells us she is going to go back home.

HB_china: Are you planning to stay here for long?
Oracle: We were planning on meeting up with some friends later at another bar, but I'm not sure I will go there. We're staying for a while longer anyway, so I'll wait for you here if you're going to escort your friend to a taxi.
HB_china: Yeah that's what I was thinking. Okay, I'll be back soon then.

I point to my cheek. She gives me a kiss there, then a real one. I tell Nucleus I'm soon ready to extract her, and getting him up to speed with how he can smoothly eject without her worrying.

She comes back and cuts in.

HB_china: Hi!
Oracle: Hi! Did you put her in a taxi?
HB_china: Yes, she's on her way to our place now. She'll text me once she gets there.

Which means I should wait until that text message arrives before extracting.

Nucleus: Okay, I'm leaving now, see you later.
Oracle: Alright, see you man!
Oracle (to HB_china): He's going to meet up with our friends now. There's something going on between him and one of the girls there. Seems like he is going to stay with her tonight. (I smile)
HB_china: Oh ok!

I isolate HB_china again, and we keep building comfort for another 10 minutes. A text message arrives from her friend, saying she is now safe. To not make things too obvious, I stay isolated for another 5 minutes. Then it's finally time for extraction.

Oracle: Let's go out and get some fresh air.

The interesting thing about extraction is that you can divide it into three parts that are separated by the techniques you will use: extracting out of the club, extracting back to your place, and extracting into your seduction location (usually bed room). The first can be done with any minor form of plausible deniability, such as the one I gave above. If you then try to extract her back to your place in the same go (by simply keep going)it's what I call a silent extraction, and this is what I aim for here.

I take her hand (same way as always, see above) and lead her out of the club. Some guy is opening her on the dance floor but I just keep walking at constant speed, and she is following, so he disappears in the crowd. He would have been slightly better off opening me instead.

As we are about to exit the place, I throw out my infamous ASD-distractor.

Oracle: Oh, do you believe in ghosts?!
HB_china: No! Why, are you going to scare me now?
Oracle: Of course not, but everybody has a ghost story. What's yours?

The purpose of this piece is to make her run a story. Most guys try to distract girls from ASD by telling them stories, but it is so much harder for her to think about sex while she is talking about something that has nothing to do with sex, rather than when simply listening to you talking about something. So don't talk, make her talk.

HB_china: Oh I'm hungry! Let's go and eat!

No need for an ASD-distractor, we are apparently going to do a bounce instead. Instead, I will do a two-step extraction, using another plausible deniability to extract her back to my place.

Oracle: I'm not hungry but I'll keep you company. I'll have something to drink instead.

We head to a nearby spot for some food, which takes about 15 more minutes. If anything, I consider this to be a babysitting session. When you've started the extraction it's too late to use most ASD prevention techniques, because you risk revealing you're intentions. Consider this: she now has some ASD because you're extracting her. To convey something that is meant to prevent or kill off ASD when she is feeling ASD as the risk of being detected. So instead I babysit: we keep casual conversation. The energy is obviously dropping.

Oracle: Am I the only one who's feeling the energy dropping now that we're in a crappy restaurant eating cheap food in the middle of the night? (I'm smiling playfully)
HB_china: Hahaha, no! But I'm so hungry!

She finishes up and we start walking towards the bar street again. Time for the second part of extraction.

Oracle: Have you ever heard Swedish music?
HB_china: No.
Oracle: Good, cause I'm going to play some for you.
HB_china: Where?
Oracle: In Causeway Bay.
HB_china: At your place?
Oracle: Yes. Here's a taxi.
HB_china: But I need to get some cash from the ATM first.
Oracle: There's heaps of ATMs outside my hotel, you'll grab one there. (I open the taxi door.)
HB_china: Okay.

We head back to my area, and she grabs some cash at an ATM. I haven't done any time bridge until now, because it may lower her willingness to come home with me. If she is going to see me again soon, and can wait for some more comfort building before having sex, why should she give it away now? But we're heading to my place now, that's for sure. I can throw out a casual time bridge here to convey pair bond.

Oracle: What are you doing tomorrow?
HB_china: I don't have any specific plans, I'm just going to have dinner with some friends.
Oracle: Me and Nucleus are doing some shopping tomorrow afternoon, why don't you join us?
HB_china: Sure!

It's called a casual time bridge because you don't actually solidify the plans. This piece is done solely to convey you have a desire to see her again, not to actually try to make it happen. Now that she has evidence for your desire to see her again, and she knows you're sexually non-judgementalness, she will be much more willing to sleep with you.

We enter my hotel. In the elevator we start making out for six floors up. I don't introduce any seduction kino yet, because that will trigger LMR prematurely. I want her in my seduction location, i.e. in my room, before doing that. We go inside my apartment, and I remove my shoes.

HB_china: Can I borrow your bathroom?
Oracle: Oh let me have a go first, I'll be quick.
HB_china: Okay.

This is a small detail, but don't let the girl use the bathroom before you, assuming you need to use it of course. This is because you don't want her to have any second thoughts while you're in the bathroom. The more occupied her mind is, the better, and a girl that needs to pee has a more occupied mind than one that doesn't. More importantly, she won't think about sex that much before using the bathroom, because most people don't plan a sequences of future events, they only look for the next thing they need to do, which in this case would be the bathroom visit.

I use the bathroom, and while she's there I remove my peacock gear (bracelet and ring) and put on some Swedish music from my list of seduction songs. It sounds cheesy, but that's because of your misinterpretation: "seduction" does not refer to the songs, but to the purpose they have in my game. They are all classic ballads, and indeed only the best ones. If I can't get away using this playlist, I'll use another one containing more allround music, also a selection of the best classic songs. Roxette and ABBA have songs that are effective for comfort and seduction using this plausible deniability.

She comes out of the bathroom and we start making out.

Dominance matters in seduction too - not to convey leadership, but for escalation. Physical dominance forces her into a more submissive state and she gets swept away, which is a great turn on for most girls. It also breaks through any token resistance and takes away her ASD: since you are clearly doing the escalation with or without her help, she only needs to consent to it in order to make it happen. To understand this latter part better, consider guys that are trying to show extreme care during seduction: they will say something along the lines of "are you sure you want to do this? Because we don't have to." There are two things that are very wrong about this frame: it conveys lack of interest, and lack of sexual confidence. Lack of interest because it makes the girl feel as if you don't really care about having sex with her, which means you're not very physically attracted to her. Lack of sexual confidence because you're not comfortable with the situation. Perhaps you're sexually insecure, and hence inexperienced (two big DLVs). More practically, this lack of sexual confidence puts the responsibility of sexual escalation on her, which is both a huge turn off and a practical difficulty. Women do not want to do the things their guys should be doing. They lose attraction for men that are not behaving like men, but like boys. This is obvious when we look at the evolutionary function orgasm provides women: a mechanism of birth control, preventing her from getting pregnant with boys. You don't need to display lots of physical dominance, but you do need to lead all the time in seduction. The more experienced and calibrated you become in seduction, the more physical dominance you should practice. To keep things safe, start with your FBs.

As we are making out, I pull her head back, kiss her on the neck, ears, and lips. She moans, I grab her breast and make out with her some more, then I start unzipping her dress.

HB_china: Can you turn off the lights? They are very strong.
Oracle: Sure. I didn't know you were shy.
HB_china: Oh it's completely dark now!
Oracle: There's only one light in this room.

I take off her dress, she now has only panties on. She's trying to take off my shirt and I help her. We kiss some more, I grab her buttock and then insert my fingers in her pussy from behind. She lies down in bed, I take off her panties, finger her some more, then she's trying to take off my belt.

HB_china: This belt is really hard to remove!
Oracle: Yes, it's childproof.

I unlock my belt, remove my socks, pants, boxer shorts, and start dry fucking her. After a while she is way past ready-to-go.

HB_china: Do you have condoms? Not that we need them now! I mean...

I always prepare my apartment/room for seduction before I go out. No stuff on the bed, lots of stuff on chairs, tables, and other places they could normally sit on instead of the bed. I make sure condoms are easily accessible, doors that should be closed are closed, doors that shouldn't aren't. The music player, laptop, and other things you'll use for seduction, sex, and after-sex postsarging should all be as easily accessible as they need to be.

Oracle: Yeah hold on.

I open the drawer next to the bed and pull up a condom.

HB_china: How come you have condoms there??

This wouldn't normally happen if it's in your own apartment, but since this isn't and all her ASD is getting triggered at this very last moment, she'll do anything to trap me.

Oracle: Uh okay, if you really need to know... Because this is actually Nucleus' condoms, which he intended to use with the girl he is seeing now.

I finger her some more.

HB_china: Just so you know, I don't have one night stands.
Oracle: Good, then I'll see you tomorrow again.

I put the condom on and fuck her.

The Unbearable Lightness of Being

Most girls in our hostel are ugly. There are only two potential targets here, a 7 and an 8 traveling together. I saw them eating yesterday at the hostel, took a seat with them and ID-DHVed in casual conversation. They are both from England (the 8 being half Indian) and somewhat shy, which leaves me to do all the DHV and baiting. We had a conversation for 15 minutes or so, before they went visiting some art gallery. It's hard to explain why, but I have this feeling the 7 is into me. She's not very hot though; I want her friend.

In a night club this is usually not a problem because the girls would not have time to communicate on their selection before you isolate one of them, and hence you can chose any of the girls that are attracted to you without them worrying about stealing their friends choices. After all, once you've extracted or built comfort, she'll backwards rationalize that it was as much her right to have you as any of her friends'. And this is why you get cockblocked too. Girls cockblock for a number of reasons, the most common one being jealousy. Just like males tend to steal their friends' targets by cutting into conversations, females tend to ruin it for their friends so that they get the most high value guy. This affects their own value, so it's clearly of importance. Another reason why girls cockblock is because they are a 2-set, and they don't want to be left alone. In this situation it's common that the target also feels bad about her friend, so you can rarely pull it off.

But this is not a night club. They will have time to communicate their strategies, and if the 7 is keen on me, chances are the 8 will let her have it her way. After all, most guys hit on the 8, making the 7 feel less attractive, and since the 8 knows this, she may want to "give" some guys to the 7 to uphold equilibrium in their friendship.

In the evening we were playing a drinking game together with some other people at the hostel, and because only the 7 had a free seat next to her, I sat there. We were going to go out later so we only played the game for a short while. The 7's leg is touching my leg, and she isn't pulling away. It could just be coincidence, but I'm pretty sure it's not. I time constraint myself telling them I have to leave soon - I'm just not that into the 7 - and the 7 nominates me as her drinking buddy in this game, which means I have to drink every time she does. But this doesn't keep me at the table with her; I shortly thereafter leave with Nucleus.

With regards to sarging, Beijing sucks. The night clubs only contain Chinese people, and the girls don't speak English. Sure, you can kino escalate and kiss girls without verbal communication, but my goal is not kissing but sex. Girls are highly unlikely to comply to sex without any prior communication, which makes the option of getting some sleep a very tempting one. I open one Chinese chick and we kino escalate, but as expected it doesn't go anywhere since all she is saying is "what?" with a smile on her face. It's fun the first couple of times, but it's unlikely to be the last thing she'll say before I take of her panties. Nucleus opens another girl, but it's pointless. She doesn't understand English. We wander around some other bars that are empty before going home to get some sleep.

Next evening I hear the 7 and 8 have left for some drinks with two British guys. I'm assuming these guys want to fuck them, but that will of course not stop me. Refusing to go out for nothing, I spend my night reading a book and talking to Nucleus about game. I know they are going to come back at some point in the night, and since I'm not tired at all, I'm ready to hear that bell go off when they are outside the hostel.

3am and still nothing. I keep reading, Nucleus is now asleep. 4am. Ring ring. I quickly put on some casual clothes, a cigarette in my mouth, sneak out to the hostel terrass that they will necessarily pass by on their way to their room, sit down in a big chair, and light my cigarette. Seconds later they arrive.

Oracle: Hello.
HB_7: Hi.
HB_8: Oh I'm so drunk!

HB_8 is drunk and crashes on the ground next to me while HB_7 gets a chair. HB_8 is rambling about how much they've been drinking, going for bar to bar, and other things that are not very interesting. HB_7 is out of state: she's caught a cold and stopped drinking for hours ago, so she's not saying very much. HB_8 grabs my leg from time to time, brushing and holding it. She's keen. This is my opportunity to close her. They are both leaving the next day, so there is neither time nor need for comfort building. In fact, there isn't even opportunity for comfort building, because drunk, horney girls with short attention span are not looking for comfort, because comfort building is boring to them. I just have to make sure HB_7 doesn't cockblock me. As she likes me, she will not appreciate me and her HB_8 having fun together.

But I also need to IOI HB_8. She doesn't know I'm keen, and being drunk, she has the attention span of a gold fish. I'm assuming she's horney, because she's kinoing me a lot, thus signaling direct interest. Alcohol kills of ASD. Guys drink it to get rid of AA, reactiveness, gayness. Girls drink it to get high energy and lose ASD.

HB_7: What have you been doing tonight?
Oracle: I've been here reading books. I was going to invite you out, but you guys left before I met you.
HB_8: We never saw you either!

I squeeze my foot under her leg and she starts touching it again. We keep talking for a while.

I need to pee, and I should do that before entering seduction which can take place at any time, all depending on her jealous cockblock friend. If I just leave, her friend might take the opportunity to cockblock me by moving them both into the room and shutting down the lights. So I light another cigarette.

Oracle (to HB_8): We'll share this one.

I hand it over to HB_8 and leave for the bathroom. When I come back, she's still smoking my cigarette, lying on the ground. I go up with one leg on each side of her head (a little above her head), and take the cigarette. We start talking again and I grab my chair. I need to convey more interest and get some kino escalation, without triggering her friends CBing mechanism.

I start massaging HB_8's neck with my fingers, while talking to HB_7. As I keep talking, this gives the impression that the massage is a very small investment. I'm trying to disarm HB_7 but it's going to be hard. My best shot is to hope that I will disarm HB_7 enough to get a situation where I can isolate HB_8, and escalate to the point where it's too late for HB_7 to intercept.

HB_8 loves the massage. Her head is bent forward, her face looking at the floor. Her eyes are closed, and she breathes deeper.

HB_7 (to HB_8): Should we go to sleep now?
HB_8: Mmm.

She's doesn't want to sleep, she wants to fuck. I know that, HB_7 knows that. I'm not sure HB_8 knows it herself yet I start talking to HB_7 again, and although she is friendly, she tries to cockblock me again a minute later.

HB_7: Come on now honey.
HB_8: Mmm.

HB_jealous lifts her up. HB_8 kisses me on my left cheek, then my right.

HB_8: Good night!
Oracle: Good night...

HB_7 doesn't say good night. I stay on the chair until they get into the room, and as they are in the room next to ours, I then quickly go into my own room, trying to hear their conversation through the wall. I can't hear any words, just who's talking. Then I suddenly hear the door open again. I quickly grab 10 Yuan, and exit my room calmly, pretending to walk towards the reception where they sell water. A second after I exit my door, I turn to my left to see HB_8 standing there alone.

Oracle: Hellooo.
HB_8: Hiii.

I walk up to her, she's leaning towards the wall. I grab her shirt to fix it.

Oracle: How are you feeling?
HB_8: Good...

I pull her towards me slightly by her shirt. The tension is going up. We are looking each other in the eyes. Then her fucking door re-opens, and HB_jealous comes out.

Oracle (to HB_8): I'm going to get water for you, wait here.

I buy two bottles of water and go back. HB_8 is alone outside, but the door into their room is open, where HB_jealous is keeping an ear on us. I walk past HB_8 and turn to the side to give her the water. I slow down but keep visible momentum.

Oracle: Wanna go into the living room?
HB_8: Yeah sure, wait a second.

She tells her friend she's going to the living room. I take a seat in a couch, she gets down next to me. We small talk for a couple of seconds, but she's quite drunk and hence not very concentrated. It's not a time to talk, because that just bores her. She wants something else.

I'm looking at some posters on the wall. She is looking down on the floor, drunk. Ten seconds, no communication. Twenty seconds, no communication. The tension is going up. Thirty seconds, she turns towards me. I turn to her at the same time, and our eyes meet for a second. Then I grab the back of her head from the side, and go in for the kiss. We start making out. She moans. She takes my hand and puts in on her tit. She moans even more. I could throw of her clothes and fuck her in the living room, but people actually sleep right next to there.

Oracle: It's cold here, lets go to my room.

Without waiting for a reply, I kiss her again, touching her back underneath her clothes. She gets horney. I get up, holding one of her hands. Then I put out my other hand, and she grabs it. I bring her into my room, but on the way we meet HB_7 which hasn't given up yet.

Oracle: (whispering) hey.

HB_8 doesn't say anything. She goes into my room right away.

Nucleus is sleeping in his bed.

Oracle: Don't worry about him, he's a heavy sleeper.

It's a lie - Nucleus wakes up very easily. But this is the way it's done. One guy has a girl, the other one stays away from the room, or pretends to be sleeping. I, Odin, Styx, and Jesse did this while traveling on the Australian east coast. Now, I and Nucleus are doing it again. I stayed away from the room for two nights, until 7 in the morning, so that Nucleus could break through LMR and close. This time he will get free porn.

She crashes on the side of his bed, at his feet.

Oracle: Wrong bed.

I grab her hand and flip her over to my bed.

Then HB_7 knocks on the door. When is she going to realize she is being desperate? Or maybe she doesn't care.

I need to develop a conveying bit that makes cockblocks feel desperate and jealous, so they'll feel ashamed of what they are doing and stop. As of now, I don't have any. I know TD directly tells obstacles "What are you doing? Are you the jealous drag away friend?", but that wouldn't work in this situation. Any suggestions are welcome.

I open the door slightly. HB_jealous is standing there.

Oracle: (whispering very low, to convey that she is disturbing) Hi.
HB_jealous: Hi. Is she alright?
Oracle: Yeah, she's all good. Are you okay with this?

Fuck fuck fuck. My mistake. Do not give an obstacle the opportunity to cockblock if you don't have to. But it's too late for HB_jealous to stop us now anyway.

HB_jealous: I don't know.
Oracle: My friend is sleeping here too. We are going to wake him up if we keep talking.
HB_jealous: Does she have the key?
Oracle: Yes.
HB_jealous: Alright.
Oracle: Good night.

I close the door and lock it. HB_8 is lying in my bed pretending to sleep to get rid of her friend. I get on top of her and start dry fucking. She starts moaning loudly. She's not intimidated by Nucleus' presence. After a while I pull her upper body towards me, and start taking off her shirt. She's not making it any easier for me, because she's not raising her arms. So I push her back down and start dry fucking her again, then fingering her through her pants. She starts taking off her belt.

Normally you remove her clothes in a particular order: start with the upper part, excluding bra. Then you take off her socks, then belt (unless her belt is above whatever she is wearing on her upper body, then you start with the belt), and then pants. Now she has only bra and panties on, and you may want to dry fuck her for a while. Then you take off her bra, and at last, her panties after fingering her through them. When it comes to your own clothes, you only need to make sure that you are at least one step ahead. She should never have more clothes on than you have, and in particular, it's important that she'll be the first one naked. This triggers less LMR, because it makes it extremely hard for her to resist the escalation without feeling uncomfortable. So Foreplay & LMR is one module, not two. Good foreplay prevents LMR, and good LMR handlers solves whatever is left to do. Also, chronologically speaking, you go back and forth between foreplay and LMR when LMR is present.

Because of this order of clothes removal, I know she's signaling that she doesn't want me to remove her upper parts. Otherwise she would have allowed me to do so. It's not LMR because she isn't resisting the escalation, in fact she is contributing to it by unlocking her belt. So same procedure of clothes removal, skipping the upper parts. I take off her pants, and start dry fucking her. I take off my own clothes, then I finger her through her panties, inserting my fingers into her pussy. She's very horney, there's no need to wait. I remove her panties and take off my boxer shorts. It's hard to tell whether she is giving me physical resistance or is just too drunk to coordinate her body, but she is not making penetration possible by moving her legs like that. I'm not going to take any chances, so I lift up her shirt up to kiss her tits, stomach, and lick her vagina. She loves it. Then I put on a condom and fuck her. It's fun to see shy girls getting wild in bed. I already know social shyness has little to do with sexual shyness, but the contrast always turns me on. The thing that turns me on the most is having sex with a girl you just met minutes ago. There's this alpha-satisfaction in that. Yusha.p and Odin feel the same way, and I don't think this is a coincidence. It's the awakening of the alpha gene.

WARNING: The rest of this field report contains sexually explicit material and is intended solely for adults. Reader discretion is advised.

Nucleus is lying on the bed next to ours and she doesn't give a crap. While fucking, she gets out of bed, gets down on her knees on the floor, leaning her upper body onto his bed. She wants me to fuck her from behind while she's leaning on his bed. What is she thinking? No wait, she's not thinking. Maybe she wants a threesome, or maybe she just likes being watched. But I'm not that cruel.

Oracle: You're going to wake my friend up, come here.

I put her back in my bed and keep fucking her. She's amazing. She never gets tired. She only wants more and more. I have to use everything I have to satisfy her: my cock, my hands, my mouth, my body. Condom after condom gets used up, and at 6:30 in the morning, Nucleus gets tired of the never ending porn, thus leaving the room. I start fucking her again, and this time there are even more sound effects.

HB_naughty: It feels so good.

She's baiting me into dirty talking. Or perhaps I was the one who did that when I said "oh fuck!". It doesn't matter; what matters is that dirty talking is something that most girls enjoy, it improves their sexual experience with you. This is key in a first step towards postsex comfort (postsarging), because with neither good sex nor good comfort, she won't return to you. It has to be at least one of these baits.

Oracle: Do you like my cock?
HB_naugthy: Yes! (she moans)
Oracle: Where is it, where's my cock?

I'm skipping the sounds of moaning since this is a FR and not a sex novel. I want to highlight how dirty talking works, not how horney she gets. She's too horney to respond verbally. The alcohol has removed every bit of sexual shyness in her, and she's taking the opportunity to enjoy this moment.

I grab her head and pull it up, towards our bodies, forcing her to watch my cock going in and out of her. She is watching. Then I grab the back of her hair and pull her head back down on the pillow.

Oracle: You're so wet.
HB_naughty: Yes...I am...

I grab her on her cheek and insert my finger into her mouth. She's too drunk to calibrate this correctly, because she is almost biting off my finger. Usually they only lick your finger, not bite them like it was a sausage. I'm not inserting anything else there. We keep going for a while, but she finally needs a rest.

In the old days, I used to have lube to solve vaginal soreness problems. Then I realized spit is much better in 95% of all cases. Sure, lube is stronger, but it dries much faster, and when it does, it's not very pleasant for her (and neither for you). Besides, spit is more accessible. Just put some spit on your hand, and rub it on your cock and around her pussy before penetrating her.

The next day she leaves, and I never even got her name. I never asked and she never told me. I don't think she knows my name either. I doesn't matter; names say more about our parents than us, them having chosen our names. She did leave behind one thing for me however: a book called "The Unbearable Lightness of Being", with a note saying this book might be interesting for me. The book emphasizes sex and love in humanity, so I guess it makes sense. If she only knew...

Sharing is Caring

While eating lunch with Jonas on a beach restaurant, these two gorgeous french girls, HB_petite (8.5) and HB_sexy (7.5), take a sit at the table next to ours. I open them casually and we start a conversation. I throw in a couple of ID-DHVs but overall I stay quite low key - it's day time, and I want to keep DHVing under the radar, hence shutting down all IOIs. We keep talking for about 20 minutes before me and Jonas go for a swim, leaving them at the restaurant.

Later that night, we meet at the main pub down the beach. They're having a bottle of wine (french ladies!) and we invite them to join our group of 3 pawns. So there we are, 2 guys and 5 girls. We have 2 pivots who keep coming in, DHVing us by giving us kino from time to time. I've decided with Jonas that he should go for the hotter one, HB_petite, while I take her friend as he gave me the hotter girl from the last set he opened. So my target is now HB_sexy, which I throw in a couple of DHVs too but as she's quite shy, and I'm more interested in Jonas gaming her friend, I retain a low profile. Nothing really interesting happens at the pub; HB_petite is showing us some cool tricks, and we do the same for them.

As it's getting later we invite them for a night swim. I'm not really in state so much of the time I spend floating on my back, watching the moon appearing and disappearing behind moving clouds. HB_sexy has given me some rather sexual looks before, so I'm not worried about losing her or failing to wing my friend. In fact, I keep thinking to myself this might be the best way for me to play it; right now Jonas is talking to both girls, and by the their laughter it sounds like it's going well for him. But I am wrong.

Out of the blue, HB_petite tells us she's going back to the club to meet some friends. HB_sexy stays in the water, so Jonas gets it and leaves after a couple of minutes. It's an irony that while it's clear that both them and us a cooperating to get what we want, none can make it obvious that this is the case. But I won't go into the reasons for this here, because I'm getting to the more interesting part.

We keep talking in the water and I notice she's getting into my personal zone - her face is about a decimeter closer to my face than what's typical during normal conversation. It's clearly an IOI. I test her by swimming closer at other times, and she doesn't pull back. She's definitely interested. I suggest we go swim in the corner of the beach because the tides are low during night, so you can lie down in the water and it's warmer (not sure the latter is true though). Once we get there, I sit down in the water with her in front of them. I kino ping by touching her legs with mine, and she doesn't move away, so I escalate by putting my hands on her legs. This is the first clear sign of interest I give away, as I'm going to escalate really fast now. We talk and as the thread dies out, I go in for the kiss. We start kissing and I pull her closer to me. She keeps touching me on my arms and back, and after a minute or so I start fingering her from underneath - that is, going with my hand from her back into her pussy. She doesn't resist at all, so I escalate all the way to fucking her in the water. It's not very comfortable because there are waves that keep drowning us every now and them, but what's doesn't one do to have sex in the water, watching the moon smile at you behind some clouds, knowing that you are right now having a whole beach for yourself?

I suggest we go up to my place to have a cigarette after the sex, the real reason being to have more sex in one of the empty, unlocked rooms at the hotel. So we have a cigarette and a shower, in which I slowly but dominantly push her against the wall, pulling her hair and taking her from behind. She becomes my FB until she leaves 3 days later. Both her and HB_petite have boyfriends by the way, but it would seem love is inversely proportional to both the distance between the lovers, and the time since they last saw each other.

HB_petite however, is still there...while with Jonas and my 2 pivots I meet her at the restaurant where I first met them, and we start talking. Having gotten Jonas permission to close her, I'm quite determined to take this challenge. I start ID-DHVing fuckloads, and she gets sucked into the conversation. She turns her whole body against me (she's a very little girl so she is sitting with her legs crossed in the chair, facing me as I'm sitting next to her), keeps asking lots of questions, and does some light kino at times. Of course, this doesn't mean she's going to sleep with me. After all, I've slept with her best friend she's known since they were babies, and as her friend told me: "We share everything. The only thing we don't share is guys, because we have different taste for guys". We'll see about that one...

It's getting darker and the others leave us to go swimming. I keep talking to HB_petite, and as the sun goes down, I suggest we should go and have dinner later. We go to her hut and I wait for her while she's having a shower. Then she follows me to my hut so I can have a shower, and we head of for dinner alone. During the dinner she gets a stomach ache, so we leave quite early to get back to her hut. Up until now I've built all the attraction and comfort I need, but I have purposely avoided kino escalation to not trigger her ASD. After all, I've slept with her best friend and she knows the details. We both know her friend hasn't given her explicit permission to be with me, so I have to make it happen in one big step (meaning all kino escalation up until sex occurs directly), just like I did with HB_sexy (although I didn't need to do it with her).

I lie down next to her in bed in spoon and start holding her. She start carressing me on my arms as I'm holding her, so we have some cuddling. It's time for me to go in for the close, because this window of escalation will not last for long. I start breathing very close to her hair and neck (not in a pinging/reactive way, because my nose is moving around), then I start kissing her neck, then her back, all while having slightly dominant hand kino (this greatly reduces the risk of getting LMR). I know I need to avoid directly lip-to-lip kissing with her, hence the spooning. I start touching her back, going down to her ass, and then finally I start rubbing her pussy from the outside of her panties. I shortly thereafter start fingering her (from behind), take of her panties, she starts taking off my clothes, and voila! Same hut, same bed, different girl.

She has some feelings of guilt after the sex, mainly towards HB_sexy. She plans not telling her what happened. I do the best I can to release her discomfort by reframing things as "a funny incident not to be taken seriously in a place like this" and that they have now "shared everything" (they used to tell me they share everything except for guys). It's good enough to keep me in the hut having sex with her until the morning. Once more I'm lying in this hut I've learned to love, listening to the soft music from the otherwise quiet bar next door, hearing the waves crawling they're way up and down the shore of the beach outside. I'm happy.